Grief is normal and natural. It can be overwhelming, but it is not always overwhelming. There is no “right” way of grieving. Each person reacts differently. While people with dementia may have difficulty understanding and communicating, it doesn’t mean that they are unable to feel the grief of someone passing. People with advanced dementia may not be able to understand or resolve their grief, even though they feel the grieving process.
Families may be unsure whether to inform a person receiving memory care that their loved one has died. The Alzheimer’s Society states that if someone is in the early stages or later stages of dementia, it’s best to have a conversation about their death to gauge their reactions. It may not be possible to communicate information about the death to someone who is more advanced in dementia.
These are some ways to let your loved one know that you have received memory support.
- First, take care of yourself. Before you share the news with your loved ones in need of memory care, take some time to grieve. You should ensure that you have the support you need. Ask someone to help you if you feel too emotional.
- Some traditional family roles such as the emotional supporter will be affected by dementia. Children who have grown up supporting their parents during times of loss can find it difficult to accept that they will now need to be the ones providing the support. It is important to prepare yourself for the changes in family dynamics when sharing information about the loss with someone with dementia.
- You should choose a time when the person in need of memory care assistance is well-rested.
- Do not give too many details at once.
- Clear statements are better than short, simple phrases. When discussing a loss, use terms that the person receiving memory support might use.
- Prepare to repeat information.
- Answer questions honestly and simply
- Pay attention to the mood of your loved one – if they get agitated or don’t understand it, it’s not the time to discuss it.
- Use physical contact, such as touching hands or sharing an embrace, if appropriate.
- If they are feeling anxious, offer comfort and support.
- Give the dementia patient time to process the news. It may be necessary to repeat the news again later.
- If the deceased person is a friend or family member, consider including them in funeral planning. Give them a task. This will make death more real to them. They might be able to recognize death rituals and take appropriate action.
- Plan to have someone with you who can help the person with dementia if they are attending funeral services.
A loved one who is receiving memory care may need support to grieving after they have been informed about the death.
Your loved one with dementia can be the most supportive if you take care of yourself and seek support. While it is difficult to support someone with dementia, family members need patience. However, they should also remember to be patient with their loved ones during stressful times.
Any questions you might have about a loved one that may be able to benefit from memory support services, we are here to assist. You can reach our team if you need help with any questions.
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